Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Opportunities to be Salt and Light

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Since I have finished the second phase of language I now have opportunities to be active trying to use my language.  One of the opportunities I had last month was to go to the clinic here that another team puts together every Saturday morning.  For the most part this team works with another people group, who does not speak the national language because they are here as refugees.  However, there are some people who come to this clinic that speak the national language.  For the most part the team focusing on this minority people group have a hard time communicating with the national speakers because they don't speak the language.  So I went one Saturday to try and help with language.  One of the ladies I got to talk to had two children who were sick.  One just had a cold, and the other one (asleep on her back the whole time) was suffering from a bad ear infection.  At the end I took their picture and helped them get their meds at the pharmacy.

I also got to help with a couple other patients this was one of the little girls waiting in line at the pharmacy (in blue above).  However, she didn't speak the national language, which is probably why she looks a little scared here.

The other opportunity I have had in the past couple of months to be Salt and Light is with a small family in a neighbourhood close to mine, yet worlds apart.  This opportunity is on going.  I went with another lady here partnering with us because she started this Storying Time with this family several months back.  This group is made up of a family of women (two widows), one of the widows daughters, another neighbourhood family (a husband, their 4 year old daughter, & the very pregnant wife).  This group is all in the national language, which is really stretching me!  We sit and listen to a story, drink coffee, eat popcorn, and then talk a little bit.  I have a national brother helping me with this.  I was supposed to meet with them by myself for the first time this past Sunday, but I was sick.  Please pr for them this next Sunday as we meet.  Pr that I would have enough language and the right words and questions for this family.  The picture above is of the two little girls who are a part of this story time.  The little girl to the right belongs to the family in this community that helps us so much with these Story Groups.  The parents and grandparents are all your Brothers and Sisters and they are a very strong family.  Pr for them, and for their perserverence.
The final picture to this series of posts is of me in the head covering that the Othr ladies where here when they go to ch.  This one was made by the mother of the national family that is helping me with the Story Time.  This is pretty much how they wear it; however, if someone has died and they are at the funereal the colour on the bottom of the shawl/scarf goes around the face.  These are often commonly used to keep warm during rainy season as well.
Serving Him with You (where ever I am),
Rachel

Visiting In Homes

For the past couple of months I have also found myself in many peoples homes.  One of these times I was invited to a baby Christianing celebration.  My language teacher met me at a local taxi stop, and we went the rest of the way together.  We arrived at her friend's house while everyone was still at the ch for the Christening.  We stayed at the house and helped the grandmother and older kids clean the house, wash the coffee beans, set up chairs to sit in, and sprinkle grass on the floor.  Grass is always spread on the floor for celebrations and for coffee ceremonies.
The picture above was taken on this special day from left goes as follows:  me, my language helper, another sweet sister who often helps with language, another Helper with us here, and finally the mom of the baby who was Christened.  This picture was taken at the end of the meal and coffee, which was late in the afternoon and rain clouds were rolling in.
For this time of celebration there is the "primary" crowd of close family friends, who have been specially invited.  We eat together, talk, and drink coffee together.  While we sit there slowly the whole neighbourhood comes in the house, sits and eats, drinks some coffee, blesses the family, and then goes home.  This goes on all day long.  Once school lets out all of the kiddos in the area come into the house and yard too.  The mother of the baby, who was Christened has three other children.  The third child is a 4 year old little girl, who is very much an extrovert.  Because of the special day she didn't go to school (all four year olds here go to four year old KG), and once her friends all got out of school they came to see the "foreigners" and eat some food.  Here are some pictures of the little ones.
The picture in the middle is the little socialite.  She wanted to be in every picture when ever any camera was pulled out that day.


Pr for this family.  The father is an O prst and is giving the rest of the family a difficult time.  Pr that there would be peace in this house, and that the whole household would follow J. 
Serving Him with You (where ever I am),
Rachel

So With Coffee Comes Celebration

Last month was the month of Estr!  Here in Camel Land we celebrated this most important of hly days twice.  Camel Land follows the Eastern calendar, so they celebrate the hly days about two weeks behind us.  However, those of us living here from other areas of the world celebrated together during the Western calendar Estr and then again with our national friends according to the Eastern calendar. 

The hly time begins here with everyone fasting for Lent for a month before hand.  This mostly means that people don't eat meat, milk, eggs, chocolate, chicken, or any other dairy for a month.  Everyone eats vegetables, lentils, and water for a month, so by the time Estr comes everyone is more than ready for meat.  On Palm Sunday everyone goes to ch celebrating by taking palm fronds and branches and decorating the roads, themselves, and their houses in memory of the triumphal entry.  Then on Good Friday you can feel the pallor in the air as everyone remembers this day.  On Good Friday everyone wakes up, eats a special meal made of chick peas, hot pepper powder, onions, tomatoes, oil, and corn.  That is the only food they will eat all day.

This Good Friday I went down to the tea shop I have been frequenting to wait for my language teacher to meet me there.  While I was there I partook of this special meal with everyone there because they were all eating, and when you are eating and you have guests they must be served food  too.  Then later my language teacher/s arrived and we walked over to the orthdx ch in our neighbourhood.  The Orthx people do not go into the building here.  Typically the building is way too small to hold half the crowd, so the first ones to arrive will enter but everyone else is outside surrounding the ch.  However, on Good Friday the people are outside with the prsts on the porch of the ch building.

Everyone in the courtyard is wearing white, and everyone is standing up.  No one is allowed to sit down while the prst speaks, and everyone waits to hear the prst announce the time after he has recounted the Estr story orally.  However, the story is told in a language  no longer spoken, so most people have no idea what they are listening to.  If the older folks get tired they have special canes to lean on to rest their muscles, but sitting down is out of the question.  If you sit or squat you get wacked by the monks and nuns walking around with wooden "hitting" sticks. 

As the time begins to tick down the priest begins to chant/sing and the people begin to pr.  This means they make the sign of the cross and bow repeatedly.  They cross their arms, touch their shoulders, bend at the waist or go all the way down to their knees, then stand back up, and repeat the process all over again.  Once the priest announces the hour as that of J breathing his last, the "pr-ing" stops and everyone becomes still and quiet. 

Once this is over everyone continues to listen to the prst, they go and make pennance for their "sins" during Lent by making the sign of the cross however many times the prst tells them to, and then once the day-long service is over everyone goes home.  On Saturday pretty much everyone stays at home and sleeps, and then on Sunday the celebration begins.  People get up at the crack of dawn go back to ch, and then back home to cook and clean and get ready for the Estr feast.  Chicken, eggs, beef, lamb, goat are all consumed with abandon, and very little if any vegetables are eaten.  After everyone is full to popping the days ends with coffee. 




This meat eating feast continues the whole week from Sunday to Sunday until Maudy Monday when it is said that He ascended back to hvn.  I was able to participate in this "2nd" Estr feast with one of my language teachers and her family.  I ate way too much meat, had to drink 2 Cokes, and then 2 cups of coffee.  I was very full to say the least after that day

The pictures are of Good Friday.  I went with two my language teachers to watch the service on Friday at the Ortho ch in our neighbourhood.

Pr for the O people here to understand that it is important to understand the Word.  Pr that He would begin to break down barriers of fear and suspicion when the G is presented.

Serving Him with You (where ever I am),

Rachel

Some Pictures of the Past Couple of Months

In the past two months I have tried to take more pictures; however, I still feel like I haven't taken as many as I could!  The culture here and the people doesn't lend itself to taking pictures that easily, and often when the camera comes out I'm either mobbed or told to put it away.....oh well, I have tried and I will continue to :).  One of the things I have been doing a lot of in the past couple of months is hanging out at a local tea house .  Here coffee shops are called tea houses even though their main beverage served is coffee not tea.  They call them tea houses because when you call something a coffee shop you are usually talking about a place that is more akin to a brothel or strip club not a Starbucks!  Crazy I know.....you say lets go to the tea house for coffee and to the coffee house for beer.  I do not understand, but sometimes it is just better not to try! 

The reason I've been hanging out in this tea house is for language purposes.  In these tea houses you sit around and talk to the ladies making the coffee, and it is great practice for language and relationship building.  Here the whole process for coffee goes something like this:

1. Buy the coffee while it's still green (yes, before roasting, coffee beans are green)
2. Pick through the beans for rocks, dirt, spoiled beans etc.
3. Wash the beans in water to get other dirt and rocks to cpme off or to come to the surface.
4. Pour the beans in a small metal pan, made especially for coffee roasting, and hold it over the fire, which you prepared and lit before you started cleaning the beans.
5.  Some people use a metal stick to push the beans back and forth as they roast the beans over the fire; others just hold the pan over the fire and shake it occassionally to keep the beans from burning.
6.  Once the beans are nice and dark brown, you pass the pan around to everyone sitting in the tea house and they waft the smell of the roasting beans to their faces and breathe deeply.
7.  Then you pour the beans into what is the equivalent of a mortar.
8. You take a heavy metal stick and began pounding/grinding the beans by hand.
9.  Once you have the achieved consistency of coffee powder......
10 You take the powder and pour it into the traditional coffee pot or jebina, you pour some water in there, and set it on the fire and let it brew.
11.  Then you put two tiny teaspoons full of sugar into macchiato sized cups and pour the coffee into each cup until it's overflowing.
12.  If you are truly national you began slurping while the coffee is burning hot.

Recently I had the opportunity to do this process on my own while my language helper looked on and helped or corrected my mistakes....apparently I am not strong enough to pound the coffee into a fine enough powder!  The next week she took me to a market in her area of the city and she helped me buy a jebina, a pan for roasting, and a metal stick for pushing the beans back and forth while the beans roast.

In between all that you have great chances to talk and practice language.....believe it or not!
Coffee is a big part of life here in the birthplace of the worldwide popular beverage.  Below you will see pictures of the different stages I talk about.  The first three pictures are of the tea house I have been visiting.  The lady pouring is a Sister, and she has a strainer in the cup to catch the larger grounds, but that is not typical....usually your third cup of coffee (because usually you drink 3 with each visit), you "eat" part of it too :).  The second picture is of my language helper on the right and the tea shop owner's sister on the left.  The third picture is me and the tea shop owner after we had a full on coffee ceremony with popcorn to eat, to celebrate me finishing the 2nd phase of language.  The last three pictures are as follows:  1. Grinding coffee.  2. Brewing coffee. 3. And the finished roasted product in the pan before grinding or pounding.

So I guess this post is more about coffee than anything else!  That means you'll get more posts this month! 

Please pr for me as I go and visit this tea shop and meet more people.  Pr also that I will be able to go and visit my neighbour across the street, who has invited me for tea/coffee.  Pr that I would be able to speak and He would give me the right words.


The language helper/teacher you see in this picture is a strong Sister.  Pr for her as she continues to share in many different venues and ways, and pr for our friendship to grow.  She is no longer my teacher as there have been some new people arrive, and she is working with them right now. 

Now I have two new language helpers, and I ask for you to pr for my patience and attitude with them.  Pr especially for one of my teachers who has two sons who are currently suffering from typhoid.



Serving Him with You (where ever I am),

Rachel



Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Where did 9 go? Now we are at 10!

Well, I didn't ever post for month 9 and now I am well into month 10, and instead of telling people I've now been here so many months I can now say, "Well, in July it will be a year :)."  Those words really thrill my  heart let me tell you!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Thank you for pr me through this first year it has been hard, and one where I have been grinded and sifted until I think I can take no more, yet I have a feeling there may be more coming.  However, He is faithful and He never gives us more than we can handle; however, the part of that verse I often overlook is that word, "when".  Paul gives us those wonderful words of, "He never gives us more than we can handle, but when He does....."  How often do we all overlook that last part hoping beyond hope that He will not give us anything we cannot handle; EVER!  However, we all know that He often does, and the reason He does (I am learning) is because He loves us, and He wants us to experience and know His love in a way most of us have never experienced any kind of love before.  One of the greatest ways He shows us His love and teaches us how to truly experience it is through times of hardship, times of discouragement, times of feeling like we have failed, times of pain.  When look at Him full in the face during those times, His face is full of unfathomable love and that is what He gives us to get through what we think we can't handle.  He wraps His arm around our shoulders, helps us stand up, takes the burden we've been trying to carry, and walks along beside us with our burdens on His shoulders.  As we walk together, if we are patient and listening, He teaches us about our burden why He gave it to us or why He allowed it.  And as He talks and we walk along beside Him; we learn and we see His love for us.....greater than any love we have or can have in this life. 

Although it is great love we often don't want it, because it is too hard.  I have been guilty of not wanting it.  Thinking that I want His love, and at the same time not wanting the difficulty that comes along with it.  However, in His grace and patience I am learning the difficult and "hard" is worth it to know His love to know how much He loves us a little more every day.  Thank you for helping me to keep walking beside Him, when I have been tempted to just throw the burden at the Father and run away.  This post is not to say, "Yay! Everything is all better I'm good now!"  That would not be the truth; however, it is to say thank you for shouldering all of this with me, and being part of that way the Father helps us carry our burdens never expecting us to carry them alone.  Thank you so much for pr me through this year.  Keep lifting me up I cannot do the next 2 years without you! 

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Serving Him with You (where ever I am),
Rachel